嗨，我三年的女友最近离开了我。她一直未经治疗的双极ABS饮食失调。我们俩都很幸福，她是我认识的最爱的人。大学毕业两天后，她突然变得非常沮丧。她说自己很痛苦，生活毫无意义，想分手。除此之外，她没有给出具体的理由。实际上，她给出了留下来的理由（我是她最好的朋友，比任何人都为她做更多的事情）。分手两周后，我与她接触，但她的答复冷酷而遥远。当我在健身房见到她时，她也使我迷住了。就像她不认识我。三年后，我伤心欲绝。 As far as I know she is working away as normal and living life as if the previous 3 years didn’t happen. It’s difficult to get me head around things. She may be going through a depressive cycle and trying to put a brave face on things, I don’t know. My heat sinks as I doubt she’ll ever speak to me again and I don’t know why. Any advice welcome