我已经和一个患有躁郁症的好人约会了一年。我们生活在不同的城市（不太亲密）。在他居住的城市，我的家人也住。我试图不时访问城市，他也拜访了我。两个月前，我来到他住的城市，我打电话给他，但他突然鬼魂。我很震惊，不知道该怎么办。我要求我们的普通朋友问他发生了什么事。他说她不想见任何人，甚至是他最好的朋友。一周前，我又来了这座城市。他给我发了消息。 When I jokingly said that I had been offended to him, he didn’t understand at all and asked what he had done to me. I called him, texted him and he GHOSTED again. I tried not to care so much because I thought that maybe he didn’t feel so good. But that day I ran across him at our common friend’s bar. He was with his best friend. He was laughing and looking good. When he saw me, he was surprised and embarrassed. But he didn’t call me or text me from that day. I am very upset right now and still don’t understand what was happening. I am waiting for your advice.