为什么地球会我现在分离的伙伴告诉我,当我们开始我们的关系,她被诊断为双相情感和药物但现在不需要它,然后否认她的爆发在我们新鲜的关系和酗酒,拿出一个完整的一面我的前女友,我不喜欢丝毫虐待行为和古怪的名字叫什么,但仍然否认她的状况。我忠于她,我们有我们的孩子,然后她把她的行为归咎于产后忧郁症……然后否认产后忧郁症。在她怀孕后,她继续让自己生病饮食和多次否认它后,我抓住了她,不知道为什么我们未出生的孩子停止生长,并诱导一个月早,体重不足。我经历很多和这个女人,在她身边,我指责她抑郁的滥用和她喝酒和爆发,甚至有警察要求我为她把自己下楼梯。她恳求我离开部队服役12年之后成为一个房子我们分离后爸爸一次又一次,照顾我们的孩子做她可以追求她的事业和我们的孩子,我从她母亲活到200英里,只看到她的周末。她饮酒和滥用继续不认为太是多么艰难,我看到我们的孩子仅24/7当她喝,叫她的女儿和自己的名字。我请求她帮助一次又一次,直到我离开。不知道我的权利我没有把我们的孩子但是我发现太晚了我应该。现在我们独立生活和我旅行200英里每两周把我们的孩子回到我住的地方然后第二天带我们的女儿去她的妈妈我没有和永远不会放弃我的小女孩。我最近采取了我的前女友(仍然)嫁给了法院给她喝,再次返回我们的女儿回到她母亲,她母亲喝醉了,我是警察。 How can she blame her drinking still on me when I'm no longer there. She is on her 2nd relationship already in 8 months. Her problem is herself and she is destroying everything around her. She may be a functional drinker but she is so much in denial. I'm concerned for her but she thinks I'm attacking her. I want what's best for our daughter and I need to know my daughter is safe. Our daughter was returned back to her mothers under the courts instruction as I was made out to have made the whole thing up by my exes barrister until my evidence from the police and hair strand test is produced in the next hearing. Our daughter will probably remain with her mother as this is how it goes, I just wish my seperated and sadly soon to be divorced wife would see that she is different when not drinking and completely different if under medication, if that's what she was taking when we first met. This is the first time I've ever wrote this down but I feel a weight has been lifted. All I wanted was a family and my little girl now is only in my arms 4 days a month.