双相情感障碍和神隐:这是一个大问题

我知道这篇文章有点老，但我刚找到它。我交往了3年的男朋友(时断时续)消失了12天，直到我收到他的消息。去年春天(2021年)，因为不知道自己想要什么，他和我分手了。3个月后，在接受了一些治疗(他反对)后，他伸出手来，说他想再试一次，正在为自己努力。我们做了夫妻咨询，以解决我们沟通方式的差异，但这已经停止了，他的个人治疗也在12月停止了。他从来没有接受过药物治疗或正式诊断，但两周前他崩溃了，说他讨厌住在科罗拉多州，他需要搬回去，离他的孩子更近一些，他不确定自己想要什么。他说他需要处理，然后两个星期什么都没有。我没有伸出手，因为我不想把他推得更远，但我和他的朋友确认了一下，确保他没事。长话短说，这个周末他给我发了一封神秘的邮件，里面写满了他的想法，然后我们见面谈了谈。他说他没有精神上的能力给予一段关系(我)，爱我，但很抱歉。他说他会去寻求帮助。 I'm so broken and sad because I want to be there to help him, seeing my best friend struggle is so hard. :( I know I have to let him heal and move on with my life--it's just really hard after having gone through a divorce and then finally found someone I wanted to spend my life with.

我可以原谅你生病，但我不能原谅你为了让自己好过一点而无视它，毁掉别人的生活。你一点也不公平，你的残忍让我永远无法理解，也不想理解。我受够了伤害，你现在必须忍受，我已经受够了一辈子的苦，该我自由了。

意识和沟通是很重要的!你做得很好，继续。

我和我的前未婚夫在一起。年。我们从一开始就住在一起，几乎是这样，因为我和共同的朋友住在一起，每个人都经常出去玩，在我搬出去和他住在一起后，我试图逃离我疯狂的、虐待人的家庭。他是我的支柱，他在经济上完全支持我，等等。他经常消失，所有人都消失了，包括家人。我会假装离开他，搬走我的东西，然后我就联系不上他了。当我回去的时候，我花了大约一个星期的时间才让他平静下来，因为他真的很激动，非常混乱。有一次他说:“你为什么不早点来?”三年前，当我们换公寓的时候，我最可怕的噩梦发生了。当我和父母吵架时，他完全消失了。 During the three years, he did go to therapy once and then ghosted her too. He moved to another state also. I feel so helpless. I've never been more sad about anything or felt more like nobody understands. My therapist says nobody CAN tell me if he's coming back or not as no one else was there. I feel so alone and scared. That feels kind of nice to get it out though I have major trauma response from this (and from before this) and I ask that people be sensitive.

我和我男朋友交往5年了。我为他工作过。我注意到一些奇怪的事情，比如他和我保持距离，他过了很长时间才相信我。我们的爱与日俱增。他第一次屏蔽我是在我辞职的时候，因为同事发现我和他在一起后，一直欺负我。持续了36天。他10年前做了肾移植手术，他告诉我他当时非常暴躁。他现在又有了一个，这对每个人来说都是极大的压力。他吃了18片。他说话非常快，非常多，他非常情绪化，出去买了3家公司(移植后4周)，他睡不着——轻度躁狂。 This is the first time I realize what is going on with him. He always said he cannot have a relationship- I thought he kept me at arms length because of his kidney problems, but I think he is Bpd. Just guessing. I have been under tremendous stress, lost my nephew last year over a long awful suffering, which destroyed my family, 2 job losses, my dog, Bella is dying & I know i have to take her. I am stressing financially. He has blocked me, now during his manic phase. Told me a female colleague is driving him around the country. And said "I should bugger off" When I phone he screams he will block me, we can only whatsapp. I am so down, I don't know how to pick myself up. He' s been under such stress, for years, worrying about surviving. So i understand & these pills he has to take, to stop his kidney from rejecting- i wish i knew long ago that he might be bipolar, I would have been better prepared. I supported him, went through bullying, him not telling his children and ex about me. His ex donated the kidney. I thought we were about to have a future, now, after the long struggle. Instead everything is falling & I have no one to speak to - don't feel like it even helps. I have to find work - just all too much. I want him to be ok and find happiness, I wish I could just speak to him. I also freaked out, thinking he is messing around with this other woman, that made him angry, that is why he blocked me. I read through these comments and I see I am not alone, maybe they just cannot deal with emotions.

我有一个我以为是亲密最好的朋友。她患有躁郁症，而我也患有抑郁症。我们是20年的朋友了。今年1月，她说她想要我的空间，因为她被生活和许多责任压垮了。我不知道这是不是真正的原因。我们已经两个半月没说话了。我试着尊重她对空间的需要，但她绝对不会以任何方式和我交流。我们生活在两个不同的状态，但我们都付出了努力和爱来维持这段关系。她有一个四岁的女儿，我觉得和她很亲近，就像她的孙女一样。我的朋友没有以任何方式帮助我和她女儿保持联系。 It feels very selfish from my end. I feel like all she cares about is her own needs and that she wont be there for me if I go through a hard time. She has not consideration for how her actions are affecting me. I have no idea if she has completely walked away from me as a friend or not. It seems very insensitive to me, to cut me out of her life.

我的伴侣三次被诊断为躁郁症，但他拒绝接受这个诊断。每一集我都陪在他身边，但为了安全起见，我不得不搬到自己的地方，与他保持一定的距离。然而，我一遍又一遍地告诉他，我希望我们的关系能继续下去，我在这里支持他。他经常屏蔽我，几天甚至几周不接我的电话或短信。这太伤人了!我开始感到非常不安和沮丧。我担心他已经向前看了等等。我不知道还能做什么来支持他，因为我们之间的关系很好，这种事就会发生。

我觉得我在一次争吵后被我最好的男性朋友鬼魅了，我觉得他可能有躁郁症。
在过去的6个月里，我们非常亲密，有着深厚的联系，彼此无话不谈。我们几乎形影不离，每个人都说我们会是很好的一对，等等。我最终爱上了他，遗憾的是他对我没有同样的感觉，就在那时，一切都开始走下坡路。起初，因为被拒绝而受伤，我不想再和他做朋友了，但他坚持和我做朋友，不想让我走。我们最终恢复了交谈，但再也不像以前那样了——我们一直在争吵，一开始我还以为是我的错。我会无意中评论他所做的每一件有问题的事情，这是很多的，他会因为他的防御本性而接近我。
我们最终谈论了这件事，把它解决了，我决定不让我的情绪支配我，我不再对他粗鲁。话虽如此，在过去的一周里，我得说，自从我们开始争吵以来，他变得越来越亢奋，说话的方式咄咄逼人，很容易生气。尽管我不再激怒他，不再说一些被认为粗鲁的话，他还是会不断地嘲笑我说的话，并在我说话的时候叫我闭嘴。为了平静，我放手了，没有报复，只是忍受了整整一个星期，但它伤害了我的内心。除此之外，他让我很烦，让我精疲力尽，有时我宁愿远离他。
几天前，他的情绪突然变了，他安静下来，说这是因为他累了。他也避免和我说话，但却和其他人说话，这真的伤害了我的感情，因为我很喜欢他，我不禁怀疑我是否做了什么让他不高兴的事情。当我问他是否还好时，他说他只是情绪波动，没有什么能帮助他，即使是他每周参加的心理治疗。他说他们只是正常的，但在他的情况下显然不是。
昨天，我为他整个星期对我的态度感到很受伤，我不明白和他谈这件事有什么意义，因为我已经这么做过几次了，一切都没有改变。我在群聊中说了一些刻薄的话，实际上每个人都对他很粗鲁，他决定离开群聊和私人信息，说他试图对我很酷，但我做得太过分了，我应该停止给他发信息。请记住，在群聊中至少有3个人也对他无礼，这是玩笑而不是粗鲁，但我是唯一一个让他生气的人。我试图解释我的立场，但无济于事，他完全无视我说的话，说他为我做了这么多，我就是这么做的，我所做的一切都伤害了他，他现在想把自己放在第一位，我应该闭嘴，不要再给他发信息了。他还说我是进步的敌人，说当他高兴，做得很好的时候，我就会来让他伤心。
然后今天，我反思了发生的事情，意识到我很粗鲁，我迫切地想解决问题，尽管他也伤害了我的感情，所以我打电话给他，他接了，但什么都没说，所以我挂了电话，又打了几次，他都拒绝了。他还忽略了我发给他的所有信息。我决定把我的伤害放在一边来解决问题，但他就是不回应，我开始怀疑他有躁郁症，他在消失我。
我注意到，他经常情绪波动，要么亢奋，要么情绪低落。我想，当我们不断争吵的时候，他有轻度躁狂发作，昨天的事情导致了他的抑郁，这都是我的错。他还没有确诊，所以我不能确定，但他有抑郁症和躁郁症的家族史，所以他很容易患上这种疾病，而且他表现出了太多的迹象，很难不这样认为。
我知道我应该参选，说实话我也有参选的机会，但我太爱他了，不能让他走。可悲的是，我不知道他还会不会跟我说话。我觉得我所做的还不足以让我被神隐，我在想他的躁郁症是否可以解释这一点。

我男朋友最近不和我说话了，正试图结束这段关系。我们在一起7个月了。他屏蔽了我，不回应我。我爱他，也知道他爱我，这是非常艰难的，200%的伤害已经有几天了，他说他没有精力谈恋爱。他还说，他的生活中有很多事情要做，没有时间。我只是想让他跟我说说话，让一切都好起来。

很高兴看到这篇文章，很抱歉评论里的所有人。我非常喜欢我过去在网上认识的一个人，在封锁期间，我们超级亲密(从未感觉过任何人如此亲密)4-5个月。我不确定我们是否合得来，尽管我们有激情和亲密。我想这伤害了他，尽管这不是私人恩怨，而且我们大部分时间都相处得很好。最后，在一次小小的争吵之后，他挂了我的电话，好几周都很沮丧，然后给我发了一封可怕的、伤人的电子邮件。他告诉我他患有自闭性倦怠症(他有躁郁症)，所以我试着保持联系并支持他。但他在那封邮件里用最糟糕的方式打断了我。我一直没有得到一个合理的解释，在这一切发生之前，他看起来很好。他以前对我一直很好。我认为他母亲对他有负面影响，并影响他与我断绝关系(据我所知)。 It's been almost 3 months since he last video called me and 2.5 months since he sent that email. The first two months since the email were extremely hard. Felt so devastated. Now am doing better but I still want a conversation with him. He told me he'd never speak to me again but idk how seriously I can take that since he was really ill when he said it. It doesn't seem healthy to just cut off with a cruel message and no explanation. I can only put it down to his bipolar disorder. I hope he's doing okay.

我妻子四周前失踪了，这是我们结婚5年/ 7年以来的第一次。我记得很多年前她被诊断出患有躁郁症。我很后悔没有了解这些迹象，也没有做更多的工作来鼓励精神病学的评估(我们偶尔会讨论这个问题，但肯定是在繁忙的生活中忘记了)。读完这篇博客和所有的回应，我感到更加害怕。这里写的很多东西听起来都像她。我很想找到她，但她不跟任何人说话。

我还没有被正式诊断为双相情感障碍，只是一种“未明确的情绪障碍”，但我妈妈有这种疾病，我有家族史。我有很多症状，而且随着年龄的增长，症状越来越严重。有人告诉我，我有情绪波动，甚至有人告诉我，他们认为我有边缘性人格障碍，但我已经挣扎了一段时间，我从还好到恨自己，想死，或者只是断开/孤立。我以前和别人在一起过，比如在学校，我和我的朋友和其他年级的人坐在图书馆里，大部分时间我都在发呆。当我的朋友问我为什么会说“我在想一些事情或者我想弄清楚一些事情”时，我也有强迫性撒谎的经历，我不知道如何停止。对我来说，这是一件很自然的事情，我讨厌自己这样做，不过我一直都不和我的朋友联系，我会花几天时间给我妈妈打电话，我会为此道歉，我一直这样做，我感觉很糟糕。我离开了原来的学校，我告诉我的朋友们我不会给他们写信，这基本上是我无意中做的。我一直很忙，有几天没有回复我的一个朋友，但已经好几个星期了，我不知道该对他们说什么，因为我说什么都不会让情况好转。有些日子我做得很好，我感到快乐，有时精力充沛，就像我有能量一样。这种情况已经持续几年了，我偶尔会觉得自己精力充沛，但有时我会犯错误或做错事，我觉得自己应该去死。 I take a mood stabilizer but it doesnt help it just makes me feel empty sometimes and I dont want to lie to my friends about why i didnt respond. I miss them so much I just dont know what to say and I feel like its too late for me. I've also gone from trying to do anything I can to stay alive or not doing things so that I wouldnt die or just having anxiety around death and then other times I feel like I deserve to die because of things I've done. Ive been taking meds for years and I go to therapy once a week. I just lie to my therapist not completely but mostly I do so everyone thinks Im okay so I dont have to go to the hospital again I just dont know what to do and I sometimes feel like some people are better off without me

我实际上是双性恋，当我感到被拒绝时，我变得狂躁，我完全进入麦卡模式，我打了一千次电话，我相信那些没有发生的事情，我让它看起来像真的，然后我最终破坏了这段关系，他最终没有解释就把我屏蔽了

我需要你的帮助。我儿子有躁郁症，一直躲着我。已经一年没联系了。我该怎么办?我非常爱他。请帮助!

我和一个变性人约会了一个半月。一开始一切都很好，但他知道我要搬回我的国家，所以我告诉他我只是想享受我们所拥有的。我记得我划定了界限，解释了沟通对我来说有多重要，我需要一个有耐心的人，因为我正在处理创伤。他似乎可以理解，告诉我他在沟通方面是多么优秀和巨大。
刚开始我见到他时，他总是精力充沛，
直到我在这里的最后几天，他都在做计划，甚至想让我见见他的朋友，等等。
然后他开始变得越来越冷，越来越累，直到有一天他告诉我他患有躁郁症，最近才开始吃药。
他告诉我他很好，只是需要时间重新适应。我不知道什么双性恋，那也是我第一次和跨性别者约会，但我很高兴他能很舒服地和我分享这一点，并告诉他我很高兴他能照顾好自己，无论发生什么，我都在那里支持他。
我问了很多次，是否一切都好，我不想多想任何事情，并希望确保有沟通，但他总是说一切都好，而不问我的感受。
有几次他想和我见面，知道我的日程安排有多忙，而当我挤出时间去见他时，他就会在最后一分钟找借口不来。
上次他发短信找了个借口，我告诉他我很抱歉，但这样已经行不通了。
我希望他能试着弥补，试着解决问题，因为之前我告诉他没关系，但让他不要再这样做了，只是谈谈。他在我留言后就消失了，避免对抗和任何形式的对话。他没有阻止我，因为几天后，我试着回去解释自己的想法，告诉他即使我很快就会离开，我也在乎他，但无故消失是不对的，尤其是当他知道交流对我有多重要的时候。即使在那之后，我告诉他我的感受，我想要见他或和他谈谈，他从来没有回答过。
我甚至不明白在这一点上我是否在乎，我觉得自己很愚蠢，因为我相信他，和我分享了那么多事情……我试着告诉自己他只是经历了很多事情，但我不能接受他根本无法沟通的事实....

我试图弄清楚我约会的那个家伙到底发生了什么事——直到上周，我想知道这是不是真的。我们约会了几个月，我觉得一切都很顺利。我们进展得很慢，但我知道他刚从一段艰难的关系中走出来，和前妻也有两个孩子。我们关系很好，他总是非常体贴周到。他每天都给我发信息，对我的工作很感兴趣，等等。我两周前的一个晚上见过他，然后就。他不再发信息，不再回复。我通过短信问他发生了什么事，他说忙。我知道这似乎不对，所以我打电话给他，他坚持说一切都好。第二天他给我发了一条短信，说他不得不取消我们第二天晚上的计划，因为他太忙了，没有时间约会。 Although I responded that I was extremely hurt he would end things over text, and not even call, he said that he was sorry but still didn't call. At some point my friend (not at my prompting) urged him to call me b/c she could tell how distressed I was by the lack of closure. He said something like ok, but did not. I can't make heads or tails of it. Did I do something? did he have something going on I didn't know about? I did notice he would get obsessive about various subjects, and he admitted it was a thing for him. He also mentioned taking prozac at one point. Could there be much more going on than I knew?

对我来说最难的是不知道。我们约会5个月了，过去6天他都没见我。几个月前他告诉我他有抑郁症和血压，以前吃过欣百达。我注意到他会过度关注某个政治问题，肯定有些偏执。但这些都不是可怕的警报。他这几个月过得很艰难，在一场火灾中失去了工作，一直在苦苦挣扎。我们大概一个月才见一次面就因为发生了这么多烂事，而且他住的地方离我只有几个小时的路程。我觉得很难知道这是不是他需要空间，因为他有太多的废话。他有段时间有点害怕，但后来我们度过了一个充满激情，激动人心的周末他告诉了我所有正确的事情。然后"噗"的一声几天后他因为工作压力太大就没回短信了。 This was just so out of character, that I thought he must have broken his phone , or gotten hurt . We literally text all the time , for hours . I couldn’t believe that the very same man who had shared so much with me and been so vulnerable with me would just walk away. Honestly I’m a bit heart broken and so lost and confused. Part of me thinks he just needs some time to sort things out, but the longer it gets without hearing from him , I just think he’s gone . So then of course , I doubt my ability to know someone . We have had such an connection on every level . I feel very taken advantage of . Because we literally talked all the time about the future .
我想我只是在决定，我是不是该生气然后跟他大骂一顿我有多受伤，这样他可能就会离我而去了。或者我只是给他空间，希望他回来，在他回来之前不联系他。自从4年前我结束了一段23年的婚姻后，他是我真正约会的第一个人，这对我来说尤其困难。之后再谈重大的信任问题!

我对你们每一个人的感受。我已经和一个男人约会了3个月了，每5-6周我就会消失。之前没有迹象，也没有解释。他很早就告诉我他患有躁郁症，我说我仍然想和他在一起，在他身边。
我跟他说过很多次，无论顺境还是逆境，我都会陪在他身边。当我们在一起的时候，一切都很顺利，这很棒。他告诉我他有多喜欢我，他和我有多亲近，他有多欣赏我。
但后来他消失了3-4周，不给我发消息，不回复我，甚至不让我知道他很好。我告诉他，如果他需要时间也没关系，但每次这种情况发生，我都担心得要死。我只想知道他还活着而不是死在水沟里。
我真的很喜欢他，所以我才会忍受这一切。但最让我烦恼的是，如果我需要他，他却不在我身边。如果我去医院，感觉不舒服，或者真的很挣扎，他不会在意，因为他在一个黑暗的地方，忽略了世界上其他的一切。
我真的不知道该怎么办了。我现在正在看第二季第四周，他突然消失了。我想我还是等他回来再和他谈吧

结婚30年了。丈夫是今年确诊的。他不跟我来往，我们住在同一所房子里。已经10年了。我只是在照顾家里的事情和孩子，我想一旦孩子们都离开了家，我们要么分开，要么像以前一样住在一起。服药后他好多了，但他还是会消失。我提醒他，无论你愿不愿意，我都还在这里。

我男朋友有躁郁症，在自我治疗。他一直在把网上买的东西以液体形式放在舌头下面。这并不理想，但它实际上似乎对他有帮助，我当时正处于如果它有帮助我就会接受的地步。整个夏天，他开始陷入旧的消极行为，当他狂躁时，他变得刻薄刻薄。他对我的一言一行都挑刺，批评我，骂我。几周前，他开始去精神科医生那里接受实验性氯胺酮治疗。在此之前，他痴迷于减肥和禁食。他减了20磅，开始每周一次，每次禁食48到72小时。他总是以食物羞辱我，试图让我达到他的节食水平。然后他在混合物中加入氯胺酮，一直令人无法忍受和刻薄。 Last week I picked him up from an appointment and he picked a fight with me, said a bunch of hurtful things and broke up with me. I went to his house and gathered my things and left. We didn’t talk all week. He sent me a message that night reminding of an obligation I had in the morning. I didn’t respond and I didn’t make the obligation either. I ran into him a few times that week at work (yes we work at the same company so there’s that) the first time we shared an elevator and made pleasant small talk. After I felt ashamed for even being nice to him after how he treated me so the next few times I just ignored him altogether. He messaged me on fb that night and said he missed me and wished I’d come over for some jalapeño poppers he’d made. Then the next day we chatted and he seemed like he was having regret and was still even considering coming on my trip for my bday in October. I tried to reach out the next day but he ignored me. Then I had asked about a couple of things I forgot to grab from his house, I said I’d leave my car unlocked and he could just leave them in my car at work l. That way if he didn’t want to talk he didn’t have to. Days went by and nothing. No returner stuff and no response. I waited a few more days to give him space then I messaged him again. This time on fb messenger so I could at least see if he was reading my messages. I said if he needs more time let me know. If it’s done and he doesn’t want to talk again at least let me know and return my things but either way please don’t leave me hanging. I’ve done nothing to deserve that. Read the message but no response. Even fb says we are still “in a relationship” he hasn’t told his family whom I’m close to and I wanted to give him the opportunity to either figure it out and or tell them first. He has had a history or being in w relationship and then ghosting her. I don’t know what this is or what he wants. I feel like I’m going crazy and not sure what to do

我已经被完全忽视了3个月了。阅读这篇文章和每个人的评论对我真的很有帮助。结婚14年后离婚。痛苦的。谢谢大家。

我需要帮助。我分不清我男朋友是躁郁症还是混蛋。我们已经三个月没约会了。刚开始的几个星期，他真的很好，没日没夜地给我发短信。总是想要见面，然后突然一个月后，他消失了5天，然后没有任何解释就回来了。我原谅了他，我们向前走了，但恰好一个月后，他又缠着我了。他会表现出重大情绪波动的迹象。他每24-36小时吃一次。他几乎每天都做噩梦。我们没有任何问题，也没有任何争吵。 Hes calling me baby one day and then a few hours later he just disappeared. Its been 10 days and ive heard nothing back from him. He posted once on his snapchat story and he knows i can see it but he didnt even care. Idk if im making excuses for him or this is really his disorder.

我曾经和一个患有躁郁症的人同居过。我们在一起4年了，感情就像坐过山车一样。她是我遇到的第一个患有躁郁症的人，所以有一段时间我一无所知。我只是在交往几个月后才开始意识到她的情绪不稳定，因为她真的很擅长隐藏自己的情绪。后来我开始注意到她的狂躁充满活力的发作和抑郁发作，但我一直认为这是她性格的一部分，因为她过去与家庭的创伤和过去与前任的关系。她曾告诉我，她与父母的关系破裂是她在18岁时搬出去的原因。我认识她的时候她20岁，我21岁，那时我有虔诚的父母，我想逃离他们，所以我抓住机会和她住在一起。我爱上了她，因为她甜美、可爱、善良和真诚的性格。我总是忽略了她野蛮的一面，那就是易怒地恶语伤人、控制欲强、充满仇恨和充满不必要的抱怨。在我们同居的半年里，我意识到她的情感性格是一种精神疾病，双相情感障碍。 Upon realizing this i was already emotionally invested and had told her that i would try to always be commited to understanding her bipolar disorder. Our whole relationship has been respectfully great. We had spent almost everyday together working multiple jobs for the past 4 years to make ends meet paying the bills and rent. We would always get stoned and go on dinner dates. She would go out of her way to do things for me as she was full of surprises on our monthsaries. She would always assure our relationship and would tell me I was the one she loved the most. She was quite responsible always cooking,cleaning, doing laundry, etc. I've seen her struggle with her depressive epsiodes and i've always comforted her with hugs and kisses. Like any other relationships we've had really bad arguments, but we both maturely always manage to come to an agreement and accept our faults. 4 years into the relationship i really believed that she was a person that i could have a future with and eventually get married. Then came a turning point to our relationship. We both started working at a marijuana grow op and she had started smoking excessively and drank energy drinks every single day for a month straight. I believe the high amount of caffeine worsened her anxiety and ability to cope through her mood swings. She had also met a new co-worker that i have noticed they have gotten uncomfortably close and his intentions were clear that he likes her. I've confronted her about and she claims that they are nothing more than friends. I've even caught her texting him it was nothing sexual but she tried to hide his phone number by saving it under her girlfriend's name. Her excuse was so i dont get butt hurt about it. After work she would be emotionally exhausted and she slowly started to drift away from me. I also had a gut feeling that she caught feelings for this other coworker of ours. We both ended up getting laid off from the job and thats when she was a complete emotiotional wreck. Out of nowhere, out of the god damn blue she was saying she needed space to be alone and that she was feeling alot of pain and hurt inside and she could no longer give me love and that its not my fault. She brought up how she wanted to move back with her abusive parents and that we give eachother space for a month for her to better herself, which made no sense at all. I have been the one supporting her and basically being her therapist for 4 years. Anyways she proposed that we give eachother space for a month and not talk to eachother at all and after she gets to decide if she was better enough to keep our relationship going. I had a gut feeling that she wanted to GHOST me after that one month. So i confronted her about this "space" she wanted and what her intentions were and she literally told me that our relationship is coming to an end. Im 25 years old now , scratching my head asking myself what did i get myself into.